Last week I saw a lovely man who came to me to feel an intimate connection, something he said he hadn’t felt for years.
He explained that he had felt suppressed by his partner and never good enough. The words he used to describe himself following his ex partners analysis were ugly, inadequate and a failure. He said that he hadn’t had sex in over 10 years and that his partner refused to see a marriage counsellor with him. He felt frustrated and alone and had needs. Needs that weren’t being met. One day he discovered that his partner had been cheating on him all along. This made him feel abandoned and rejected and hit his self worth hard.
The crazy thing is that he is a great guy and has loads going for him. Polite, well spoken, interesting and good looking too!
I assured him that things can be taken slowly and that intimacy goes far further than just penetrative sex. We explored with gentle touch and kissing. At the end I could physically see that he looked happier and less tense and stressed. We kissed and said goodbye. It was a very good appointment.
Hugs and Kisses
Sadie xxxxx
